Join the Community

Survivors supporting survivors, in whatever form care takes.

Our gatherings are private, moderated spaces. Meeting links are never posted publicly. Apply here, agree to our safety standards, and wait for human review. Approved members receive private access by email after we confirm email ownership. Applying does not grant access.

You may use a chosen name. Give only a broad location, or write “private.” We do not require government ID or proof of trauma. Our community gatherings are for adults 18 and older.

A social profile helps us review who is applying; it does not prove someone is safe. We review applications personally and confirm email ownership before approval. We never ask you to prove your trauma.

Our community agreements

• No recording or screenshots.
• No sharing another member’s story outside a gathering.
• No private contact without invitation.
• No hate speech, threats, sexual harassment, victim-blaming, interrogation of abuse stories, or promotion of violence.

Violations may result in immediate removal and loss of community access. Confidentiality is an agreement we enforce; no online space can guarantee another person’s behavior.

Your application is stored for founder review. Share only what feels safe; avoid confidential case details or identifying another survivor. For questions or deletion requests, email hi@kirbyamour.com.

Our Community Room

Approved members can share activism, practical support, and resources under a chosen name. Applications, email addresses, social profiles, and private review notes stay with the founder.